1 Thessalonians 4:11
and to aspire to live quietly, and to mind your own affairs, and to work with your hands, as we instructed you,
1 Thessalonians 4 : 10
for indeed you do practice it toward all the brethren who are in all Macedonia. But we urge you, brethren, to excel still more, 11and to make it your ambition to lead a quiet life and attend to your own business and work with your hands, just as we commanded you, 12so that you will behave properly toward outsiders and not be in any need.
DISCREET IS BETTER THAN OPEN BOOK, PEOPLE ARE JUST CURIOUS ABOUT U BUT DOESNT REALLY CARE ABOUT WHAT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH. THE INFORMATION AND SECRECY YOU MAY PASS TO OTHERS WILL JUST CONTINUE TO ANOTHER TOUNGE AND EAR. THEN IN THE END, YOUR LIFE IS A CIRCUS.
People really doesn't care what matters, but are curious on what happens in your life. Wether you are out or inside your household. Wether your dead nor alive, they just want to hear you. But those who believe and trusting the Lord, will surely come to you and ask how you are without proclaiming the whole world what they do for you. People who truly love are not gossipers, people who truly love does not parade itself, does not expect in return.
When people loves you, they will try the best to help you rather than speak.
When people loves you, they will try to lift you up to God rather than point your mistakes and gossip about it.
When people love you, they will tell you your mistakes and instruct you how to become a better person.
So its better you have few friends whom are true to God and true to you.
Never put your life story in the whole wide world when it's not necessarily needed.